Sunday, 4 January 2015

How to welcome back a backstabber

The more chances you give to someone the less respect they will start to have for you.
They shall ignore the standards that you have set because they know that there is a space for another chance. They are not afraid to lose you because they know no matter what you will not walk away and they get comfortable with your forgiveness.. Only strong people can forgive, especially when they know that they're going to get a bounce back of same action with another excuse..

Be thankful to those who left you in lurch because they taught you what is it mean to be self dependent, they helped you in taking out the strongest version of you.

Forgive them, and let them be in the self delusion that they succeed to fool you again and again and again.. on the cost of their depriciating credibility and worth

Keep your doors open to come back but make sure they sit, eat and get out in the same manner they left you earlier, no room to stay in.

And above all, Don't be bitter but be nice, simply because the anguish and pain you have gone through, gifted you with something valuable for lifetime that's " the value of yourself" and because nothing is as amazing as to sit in front of a person, listen to those repeated recorded promising phrases with difference expression, connotations, and SMILE to look into their eyes because you know what interpretation, value, impression and maneuverability have these word got now.. :P

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