Wednesday, 18 September 2013

Those talks, too common??

A very happy #ThirstyThursday to you all.

Being into the relationship is about being 'special'. The Expectation of treatment, love and behaviour is always for that special one that no other person is entitled.

But sometimes, your partner treats other men/women the same way as he/she is with you, and sometimes others are treated more lovingly than you are supposed to be.

Those diminutives that he/she uses for you like 'babu', 'shona', 'baby' etc are used for everyone else as well.
Sometimes, when a colleague of opposite gender calls up, does he talk to her very 'sweetly' just the way he 'used to' talk with you? When the 'Thin line' between Friends and Girl/Boyfriend seems to be blending away??

Or Does she treat her male friends the same way she treats you?
Or at times, he/she talks to everyone the same way, that 'lovingly and affectionately'. He/she may not have any bad intention but yet the 'Special' charm of the relationship becomes very common.

By the time, you develop the trust and understanding that your partner will not commit infidelity and you're open minded to accept the "healthy flirt", still do those impassioned talks and treatment to other people, the way you're supposed to get and deserve, bother you?

Have you guys ever talked about it? Do you feel bad or you're very much okay with it?  Did you ever share this feeling with your partner?

What is your take in this matter? 

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1 comment:

  1. well i think such he or she is not serious even in the relationship he/she is if the person acts with that 'specific' way with everyone or is not serious.